Divorce Milestone : How I deal with it
Today marks 10 years since I put my ex-wife on a plane to Las Vegas. A trip that was presented to me as going with friends (married couples) but in actuality and most deceptively was a ruse to spend time with her boy toy who I believe she ultimately married. Adding pain to agony, I also paid for approximately $600 in Harley-Davidson t-shirts according to a reliable source. This was but a step toward my life separated from my possessions but that ultimately freed my soul to join with the love of my life. When reviewing the events of that faithful year (2009) I see that a decision was made for me that I would have never chosen for myself. The divorce agonizing not just for me but for all those around me as is the case in these experiences. No man is an island, Jack indeed. It started with the discovery of an email that my wife had received from a divorce attorney, culminating in an agreement that haunts me to this day. The key word for this experience was deception. Deceived